Comments on: Stop Being the Victim

By: Julie

Julie — Mon, 03 Oct 2011 20:05:54 +0000

Do you not know it is our duty to help the poor in this world? Nobody gets rich on their own. Everybody has got some help financially from someone at some point in their lives. What matters is you don’t look at yourself as being a “victim.” Bad things happen, but as a result there is a positive outcome we need to realize that will come out of the situation, or circumstances on what we are going, or have gone through in life. You need to get down to HOW the problem occurred, and GET INVOLVED to find an accurate solution to it, which could eliminate such a problem from happening to many other people in the world.

By: Carol Walczak

Carol Walczak — Thu, 04 Aug 2011 12:19:52 +0000

Good strong article. There may be a fine line at times between someone who needs a hand up or a boost to get going, and someone who just wants attention but will never change what they do. But if you follow your gut feeling you will know which is which.
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By: James Morin

James Morin — Sun, 06 Dec 2009 23:50:33 +0000

Have a heat Stephen. “Blessed are the merciful for they shall receive mercy.” A man from another country told me about America, “there is no mercy.” All this is a lot of blame the victim Puritan bullshit.

By: BunnygotBlog

BunnygotBlog — Sun, 06 Dec 2009 18:54:43 +0000

So many people who are victimized are brainwashed into believing they deserve the abuse by their abuser. It is sad when people don’t realize they have the strength to change their situation. It takes courage and gumption and a lot of faith.
There are places to get help if you don’t have a friend or family.
Great article!

By: Lalitha Brahma

Lalitha Brahma — Thu, 08 Oct 2009 01:39:19 +0000

Excellent article. Whenever a situation arises, where I feel like a Victim, I quickly ask myself, how can choose to view the situation differetly and be a victor? Its all in the mindset.

By: Doug Rosbury

Doug Rosbury — Sun, 19 Jul 2009 14:45:23 +0000

Being a victim is a choice. being a victim of a situation like katrina is ridiculous.
Why is it that you made the decision to be in that part of the country in the first
place? Whose fault is it that you were there exposing yourself to such a disaster?
To make yourself a victim of something you could have avoided shows a sense of
unconsciousness on your part. Victimhood is a way of expressing your tendency to
express a controlling and self serving nature. It is a chosen opportunity to be a burden on society rather than a productive member. Every situation that visits you
has been created by you and definitely not by God. Don’t be stupid and
ridiculous.———–Doug Rosbury

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