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		<title>By: Vin - NaturalBias</title>
		<link>http://www.ratracetrap.com/the-rat-race-trap/may-i-have-your-attention-please.html/comment-page-1#comment-14186</link>
		<dc:creator>Vin - NaturalBias</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 14:35:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Stephen, 

Great article! I find it amazing how a series of thoughts on a particular subject can have such an influence. I think it&#039;s an important thing to be aware of because if you don&#039;t make an effort to recognize how your surroundings are influencing your thoughts, and in turn, your actions, then you&#039;re making yourself more susceptible to the possibility of letting others dictate your life, especially those who intentionally take advantage of such situations. 

Happy Holidays!
.-= Vin - NaturalBias&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/NaturalBias/~3/YKJQgcpC-To/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Is Your Diet Harming Your Character?&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Stephen, </p>
<p>Great article! I find it amazing how a series of thoughts on a particular subject can have such an influence. I think it&#8217;s an important thing to be aware of because if you don&#8217;t make an effort to recognize how your surroundings are influencing your thoughts, and in turn, your actions, then you&#8217;re making yourself more susceptible to the possibility of letting others dictate your life, especially those who intentionally take advantage of such situations. </p>
<p>Happy Holidays!<br />
.-= Vin &#8211; NaturalBias&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/NaturalBias/~3/YKJQgcpC-To/" rel="nofollow">Is Your Diet Harming Your Character?</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Steven</title>
		<link>http://www.ratracetrap.com/the-rat-race-trap/may-i-have-your-attention-please.html/comment-page-1#comment-14159</link>
		<dc:creator>Steven</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 01:49:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Brilliant post Stephen.

I&#039;ve heard of the conspiracy that the American government is purposely lowering the intelligence of it&#039;s citizens so that they may remain as an intellectual power without being questioned.

Nowadays the major news networks produce trivial events as if they were the end of the world. It seems that most people are more interested in Tiger Woods&#039; affairs than any important political, economical, or scientific situations. 

I hope our civilization will smarten up as a whole and realize what is more important within all of us that is worth our time and our attention.

Thank you for bringing this up.
.-= Steven&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.humanexplosion.com/2009/12/intellectual-understanding-vs-intuitive-connection/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Intellectual understanding Vs. Intuitive connection&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brilliant post Stephen.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve heard of the conspiracy that the American government is purposely lowering the intelligence of it&#8217;s citizens so that they may remain as an intellectual power without being questioned.</p>
<p>Nowadays the major news networks produce trivial events as if they were the end of the world. It seems that most people are more interested in Tiger Woods&#8217; affairs than any important political, economical, or scientific situations. </p>
<p>I hope our civilization will smarten up as a whole and realize what is more important within all of us that is worth our time and our attention.</p>
<p>Thank you for bringing this up.<br />
.-= Steven&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.humanexplosion.com/2009/12/intellectual-understanding-vs-intuitive-connection/" rel="nofollow">Intellectual understanding Vs. Intuitive connection</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Nea &#124; Self Improvement Saga</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nea &#124; Self Improvement Saga</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 00:27:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wonderfully well-written, Stephen.  I just try to remind myself that paying attention to it is like asking for it.  And I can notice things without focusing so much of my energy upon them.  Like you said,our attention is valuable currency.
.-= Nea &#124; Self Improvement Saga&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/selfimprovementsaga/~3/I2-q7aVm3C0/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Truth and Reality vs. Your Outlook and Perspective&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wonderfully well-written, Stephen.  I just try to remind myself that paying attention to it is like asking for it.  And I can notice things without focusing so much of my energy upon them.  Like you said,our attention is valuable currency.<br />
.-= Nea | Self Improvement Saga&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/selfimprovementsaga/~3/I2-q7aVm3C0/" rel="nofollow">Truth and Reality vs. Your Outlook and Perspective</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: John D. Buerger, CFP®</title>
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		<dc:creator>John D. Buerger, CFP®</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Dec 2009 21:59:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Here&#039;s an experiment you can try.  It will prove Stephen&#039;s point:

The next time you are engaged in a group function (a game, business or family project), make a point to verbally praise every positive or constructive activity you observe.  You&#039;ll be amazed at how this changes everything.

When I&#039;m not helping people make smarter choices with their money (I attention is the key there, too), I am an avid soccer player.  During a recent pick-up game, with our side being handily beat for the first 30 minutes, I went into &quot;supportive praise&quot; mode.  Every good pass got an &quot;atta-boy&quot; out of me, even from across the field.  Same with shot attempts (even ones that were way off) or an effort by one player to support another in trouble.  I even got to praising fellow players when they were talking constructively to each other.

The whole tide of the game changed within 10 minutes.  The people didn&#039;t change, just their attitudes ... and their attention.
.-= John D. Buerger, CFP® &#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.richandfulfilling.com/index.php?option=com_content&amp;view=article&amp;id=190:five-secrets&amp;catid=19:public&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Welcome - Why We&#039;re Here&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s an experiment you can try.  It will prove Stephen&#8217;s point:</p>
<p>The next time you are engaged in a group function (a game, business or family project), make a point to verbally praise every positive or constructive activity you observe.  You&#8217;ll be amazed at how this changes everything.</p>
<p>When I&#8217;m not helping people make smarter choices with their money (I attention is the key there, too), I am an avid soccer player.  During a recent pick-up game, with our side being handily beat for the first 30 minutes, I went into &#8220;supportive praise&#8221; mode.  Every good pass got an &#8220;atta-boy&#8221; out of me, even from across the field.  Same with shot attempts (even ones that were way off) or an effort by one player to support another in trouble.  I even got to praising fellow players when they were talking constructively to each other.</p>
<p>The whole tide of the game changed within 10 minutes.  The people didn&#8217;t change, just their attitudes &#8230; and their attention.<br />
.-= John D. Buerger, CFP® &#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.richandfulfilling.com/index.php?option=com_content&amp;view=article&amp;id=190:five-secrets&amp;catid=19:public" rel="nofollow">Welcome &#8211; Why We&#8217;re Here</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Positively Present</title>
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		<dc:creator>Positively Present</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Dec 2009 17:09:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Law of attraction... It really is amazing. Lately I&#039;ve noticed so many things like this, things that I think a lot about and then somehow have more of in my life. I used to think that kind of thing was BS, but the more I experience it personally, the more I really believe that we attract what we think about. Great post!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Law of attraction&#8230; It really is amazing. Lately I&#8217;ve noticed so many things like this, things that I think a lot about and then somehow have more of in my life. I used to think that kind of thing was BS, but the more I experience it personally, the more I really believe that we attract what we think about. Great post!</p>
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		<title>By: Burke</title>
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		<dc:creator>Burke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Dec 2009 16:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I haven&#039;t read the Heller book about Ayn Rand and don&#039;t intend to.  The reviews of it by other Objectivists are not favorable.  It&#039;s obvious she knows nothing about Rand&#039;s philosophy and has adopted as fact accusations of her critics, many of which are known to be false by others.

Rand may or may not have had some personal difficulties, but her life was quite interesting and productive,  hardly &quot;troubled&quot; as stated above.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I haven&#8217;t read the Heller book about Ayn Rand and don&#8217;t intend to.  The reviews of it by other Objectivists are not favorable.  It&#8217;s obvious she knows nothing about Rand&#8217;s philosophy and has adopted as fact accusations of her critics, many of which are known to be false by others.</p>
<p>Rand may or may not have had some personal difficulties, but her life was quite interesting and productive,  hardly &#8220;troubled&#8221; as stated above.</p>
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		<title>By: Mark Dowdell</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mark Dowdell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Dec 2009 14:23:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dead on Stephen,

I just can&#039;t get around it at work, this stupid pontification about Tiger Woods (which I believe must have been one reason for your post).  It&#039;s amazing how quickly people will take this stuff in and not only talk about it (keeping it in conversation way longer than it should be) and just entrenching themselves in the controversy.  Why do they not realize that it is absolutely meaningless?   I don&#039;t get it.
.-= Mark Dowdell&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://question---mark.blogspot.com/2009/12/global-warming-back-and-forth.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Global Warming Back and Forth&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dead on Stephen,</p>
<p>I just can&#8217;t get around it at work, this stupid pontification about Tiger Woods (which I believe must have been one reason for your post).  It&#8217;s amazing how quickly people will take this stuff in and not only talk about it (keeping it in conversation way longer than it should be) and just entrenching themselves in the controversy.  Why do they not realize that it is absolutely meaningless?   I don&#8217;t get it.<br />
.-= Mark Dowdell&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://question---mark.blogspot.com/2009/12/global-warming-back-and-forth.html" rel="nofollow">Global Warming Back and Forth</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Derrick</title>
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		<dc:creator>Derrick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Dec 2009 13:27:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well said....you had my interest from start to finish.

                                                                            Derrick</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well said&#8230;.you had my interest from start to finish.</p>
<p>                                                                            Derrick</p>
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		<title>By: Gordie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gordie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Dec 2009 05:07:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Stephen,

Thanks for the reminder of what we focus attention on really matters and can affect our lives individually as well as well as a society. 

Western Civilization is in decline. I believe a major reason for this is because we have chosen to focus and idolize the trivial. Like you said, celebrity gossip is one. people who are serious thinkers and intellectuals aren&#039;t respected by the general populace in in the West.
.-= Gordie&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/2009/12/how-to-slice-and-dice-your-way-to-success/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How To Slice And Dice Your Way To Success.&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Stephen,</p>
<p>Thanks for the reminder of what we focus attention on really matters and can affect our lives individually as well as well as a society. </p>
<p>Western Civilization is in decline. I believe a major reason for this is because we have chosen to focus and idolize the trivial. Like you said, celebrity gossip is one. people who are serious thinkers and intellectuals aren&#8217;t respected by the general populace in in the West.<br />
.-= Gordie&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/2009/12/how-to-slice-and-dice-your-way-to-success/" rel="nofollow">How To Slice And Dice Your Way To Success.</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Jay Schryer</title>
		<link>http://www.ratracetrap.com/the-rat-race-trap/may-i-have-your-attention-please.html/comment-page-1#comment-14074</link>
		<dc:creator>Jay Schryer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Dec 2009 15:21:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s kinda like the old saying, garbage in, garbage out; treasure in, treasure out. Those things that you pay attention to, those things that you focus on and bring into your life become a part of who you are as a person. So turning your attention to the positive things, and to the things you admire and respect helps turn you into the kind of person you want to be.

I can dig it.
.-= Jay Schryer&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://porsidan.com/paying-it-forward/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Paying It Forward&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s kinda like the old saying, garbage in, garbage out; treasure in, treasure out. Those things that you pay attention to, those things that you focus on and bring into your life become a part of who you are as a person. So turning your attention to the positive things, and to the things you admire and respect helps turn you into the kind of person you want to be.</p>
<p>I can dig it.<br />
.-= Jay Schryer&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://porsidan.com/paying-it-forward/" rel="nofollow">Paying It Forward</a> =-.</p>
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